Jake on Chmistry :)

You can´t see with the sun in your eyes
You're innocent
You think everything is possible
And nothings gonna get you baby
Everything is touchable
Nothings gonna beat you in this life

Kiss Kiss Bang Bang,

How have ya'll been?

I've been great. I guess considering i have tons to do . The urrr lyrics on top of this post is from Steereophonics's song Innocent . Yes, my LOVE for them has been rekindled and nothing can stop me from blogging endlessly about how awesomei think they are and how their songs are epic and will witshtand time itself :P

Anyways, i was going through my old diary just now. The one i started when my first semester just started and boy oh boy was i so embarresed by it. My enless ranting about boys boys boys. Well BOY to be exact. Ahhhh.... How times has changed :) I feel like burning that diary but then it does cheer me up when i'm down or when i feel really embarresed about something i read that then i remember more embarresing times.

BUT THAT'S NOT WHAT I WANTED TO TALK ABOUT

I discovered in my diary, articles that i've saved from GLAMOUR magazine UK edition. Yes, i use to spend ALOT on magazines before. This articles was about Jake ( a man's opinion about dating) . I use buy the mag cause i really wanted to read his aticle. One article i kept that was really eye opening for me was the one in the december 2009 issue. "What Makes A Man Fall Hard For You?". Jake says " more than looks, personality or anything else it's the chemistry." He points out that even if we did meet the perfect person for us. Perfect as in shares the same interest, good sense of humour, good looking, even if we know it would be perfect if the chemistry is not there then it's not on.

In one paragraph

Of the myraid factor that makes or break a love connection- sense of humour, intelligence, the orientation of toilet paper roll(over or under ;people?)- chemistry is th perennial mystery , stronger than attraction and unrelated to compatibility. You're never sure why it hits, but when it does , you know it. As far as i can tell, guys fall slave to this beguiling force more than woman do.

So yeah.

Chemistry is an important factor.
It's not all about biology.
lol
get it?

It's like staring outside a window. You know you want to got out, the weather is so perfect , the time is just right.

BUT YOU JUST DON'T FREAKING FEEL LIKE IT.

In the article he was using this girl "Holly" as an example. Apparently they clicked so well that it would be insane to let her go. However, he felt no chemistry. But instead of just not dating her. He did. For the sex. The sex got old and so did the relationship.

" if the chemistry was missing , there is only a limited - time- only thrill of the new"

BEFORE HOLLY

"There was Jenny. The one that hits you like a strong narcotic . Had virtually nothing in common. But i was smitten. HYPNOTISED. I would have done anything short of setting my eyebrows in fire to keep her and i still can't put my fingers on why."

He ends by saying

"i am a chemistry willing victim. But if it can keep me with somebody so wrong for me, it can also keep me from someone really rright, helping us both get through rocky relationship every couple hits."

I love his articles.
I really do. He just makes soo much sense. It's amazing.

I am going to end this post with a quote by David E.Kelly

Chemistry is not anything an executive producer or writer can orchestrate or plan; you just hope for it.

Much love
Debra